Reversal of Roles: I Once was Weak, But Now I'm Strong
As the years creep up and pass, the roles of females in relationships tend to become less weak and more testosteronely *made up word* driven. In 2009, are women the new men in relationships? Click here to see what I think>>>>>
Women are becoming more uninhibited creatures and grabbing life by the balls and leading the way. In some situations, it seems like women are becoming the male fixture in their relationships. But with good reasoning. After a woman takes so much, it is to be expected that she becomes hardened, while often times the man reverts back into this 'bitch like' state.
Let me explain this way....after a man has degraded, talked down to , cheated on, etc a woman, it is only logical that she becomes hardened to the acts as not to be hurt by them any longer....be it in this relationship or the next one. HOWEVER, as the women harden, the men soften. TRUE STORY! Classic example...Ike Turner. He beat the living shit out of Anna Mae....but when he realized that his hateful behavior no longer affected the way she went about her life, he attempted to win her back by 'bitching down'.
I'm not saying that an emotional man is a bitch...that is not my intention or my stance. There is a difference between hard work in a relationship and being an asshole.
A slight confession, I am a female that has been hardened by my past. My mom often tells me that I think as a man and that she worries that I'll be too hardened by the time I get into my next relationship. And I can honestly say that my son's father has become a more understanding...softer man... in regards to me. We reversed roles hardcore. You live and you learn....but your past will evolve you into a person you shouldn't be. I wish, at times, that I could be more emotional...it's just not me anymore...on the surface at least.
My thoughts on role reversals: I think that as the years continue to drudge on....women will eventually end up in the emotional position of men and men will evolve in emotional creatures that women are thought to be...true story!
Til' Then,
Ms. Trecie
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