Til' Then

On September 15th, 2009, I went in on twitter (according to my friends). I gave the definition of a hoe and a groupie and watched as my words affected others. It was like I had taken a lit match and threw it on dry grass in the mist of a drought….it started out small and grew into a damn wild fire. As I watched, in an awe of sorts, my DM box blew up….lets talk about it after the jump>>>

Okay, so let me preface this post with my definitions.

Groupie-a person (male or female) who tends to mess with numberous people of status for status or a story. They are often compensated by monetary gifts for their time and efforts. *sidenote: a woman who dates a person of ‘celebrity’ status is not a groupie…a groupie is a person who is known throughout the industry as the ‘it’ girl.


Hoe-a person(male or female) who TRIES, and is often times successful, to sleep with people because of who they are, who they may be, or even who they aren’t. Status isn’t important to a hoe. They will go beyond their means to show their interest or present a front. They will sleep with or try to sleep with the whole crew…their mission is to be the ‘it girl’.


Okay, so now that you have the basics….lets get started….

To answer a majority of the questions in my DMs….yes, I had intentions behind my ratchet ham session this morning. I am not, in any way, saying I approve one….not at all. I mean the difference between a groupie and a hoe is compareable to the difference between an escort and a prostitute….(layman’s terms: the type of people they deal with…high profile vs. the ‘regulars’).


As I stated on Twitter, there is NOTHING wrong with liking sex…hell I love sex…true story…HOWEVER, it is all about how you present yourself in doing so. Being openingly known as a groupie or a hoe, whether you know it or not, is not a good look…AT ALL. Anytime your bad reputaion preceeds you, you are automatically tossed to the side and immediately you become the ‘girl that is goin’. I wish that on no one.


My hopes in setting out these definitions was to let these females see the defintions and to perhaps….save them….but I learned ‘don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved’. Instead, I think I angered the hoes and their godess…Sealus Prosthepedia. So I backtracked and half assed apologized…my intent was not to anger, but to inform…know better do better, right?


Eh….who knows! Oh well….

Til’ Then,
Ms.Trecie